Do you know what an abortion is? An abortion is the termination of a pregnancy by the removal or expulsion of a fetus or embryo from the uterus. The abortion can occur spontaneously or it can be induced. The abortion can be induced in many ways, it depends of the gestational age of the embryo, it can be by a medical abortion or with herbal abortifacients. If the abortion is spontaneous it occurs by a miscarriage, it could be by accidental trauma or by natural causes. In my point of view induced abortion is not very good because we can not decide who lives or who do not. You are the owner of your body, but you are not the owner of someone else, so for that reason I do not agree with the abortion.
Sometimes people decide to have an abortion because they do not want to be responsible of a new life, when you start to have sexual relations is because you took that decision and you already knew the consequences. If you were responsible to say “I am going to start my sexual life", obviously you are responsible about your decisions”, if you did not want to protect yourself for not getting pregnant, it was your own decision. Also nowadays there are a lot of contraceptive methods and you can get it in an easy way, moreover there is a lot of information about this topic, so you do not have pretexts about that.
Other people want to have an abortion because they say that they are the owners of their body and if they do not want to have the baby they have the right to get an abortion. As I said in the last paragraph you can protect you in a different ways, all error has a consequence and if you did not want to be pregnant you had to take care about yourself. Moreover you are the owner of your body but not of someone else. You can not decide who lives or who do not, God is the unique person that can decide that, but if you do not want to take care about the baby you can give her or him in adoption and in this way you will not become a killer.
But what happened if the women were rapped? Sometimes women decided to have an abortion because they do not want to have a baby of someone that they never loved or may be they never met them. Who is going to want a baby that was made with violence? I know who is going to want him or her, there are some couples that tried and tried to have babies and they never could. That kind of people are not going to argue about the origins of the child, they just want to have a family, it does not matter who were the parents, so you can give him or her to them in adoption too. It could be very difficult to have the baby in those conditions but it is not impossible.
In conclusion, I do not agree with abortion because there are not pretexts to has it although you were rapped, there are other solutions, for example, as I said you can give him or her in adoption and with this, you can make happy to a family and in this way you would not be a killer. You have the last decision to be responsable or do not, and only you can decide what is the better option for you, you can take care of your baby and make him or her part of your life, or you can give him or her in adoption.
jueves, 21 de octubre de 2010
jueves, 7 de octubre de 2010
MY BEST BOYFRIEND!!!
Have you ever imagined to be with someone that is not the type of person that you used to hang out with? When I was younger I wanted to have a brown skin boyfriend, and I wanted that he was similar to me, but now I really know that physical appearance is not important. Last year I met my boyfriend, his name is Hugo Kalagan Alonso, he is 22 years old, he was born on June 22nd, 1988. I do not love him for his physical appearance; I really love him for his personality, even though he is very proud. We, as a couple, have some differences but also we have a lot of similarities and all these details make our relationship interesting.
As you know my boyfriend´s name is Hugo Kalagan Alonso, I like to call him Kalagan. He is very tall; his high is around 1.88 mts. He has blond and wavy hair and light brown eyes. He has a big smile; a characteristic of his smile is that he has too big his canine teeth. He does not have a lot of beard and mustache, for this reason he always shaves him. He is a little chubby; his weight is of 85 to 90 kg. He has long and strong arms, his hands are big with thin and long fingers. He also has long legs, foot toes are very large and his nails are too small. He was born with dark circles under the eyes and these dark circles are a big characteristic of him, sometimes he looks like a raccoon.
Some people tell me that he is not very handsome but it does not matter because he is a very good person. If you see his face you can believe that he is very apathetic, but when you start to speak with him you can see that he is not that kind of person. I met him almost 2 years ago and I can tell you that he is a very confident person; also he is very friendly, he likes to laugh and playing a joke, but he is not very good telling jokes. He is not very vain but he likes to take care of his appearance, also he is not very sentimental and he does not like to express his feelings. He is very proud and I think sometimes that his proud is not very good because sometimes he does not accept when he makes a mistake and also because he does not like to apologize. But I met him with all his virtues and faults and I really like the way that he is.
I think that we are together for our differences, and these differences make our relationship very interesting and amazing. Also we have a lot of similarities and it is good because we agree some aspects. I really like to be with him because he makes me feel happy, when I am with him is like pink color, I forget my problems and if I am sad he tries to make me smile and laugh with jokes or saying me beautiful things. He tries to be with me in bad moments and I try the same. I have to say that I lived with him the best moments of my life. Sometimes when we argue, he does not say anything; he just gives me hugs and kisses. All our problems make our relationship stronger because I love him and I know that he loves me in the same way.
In conclusion I think that he is the best person that I met, it does not matter if he is not brown skin as I wanted because the things that are really important are his feelings and all the characteristics that makes him unique. I believe that if you really love does not matter physical appearance and it happened me I love him a lot and I like the way that he is, it does not matter if he is proud or not because it is a big characteristic of him and if I try to change it he is going to lose his essence as a unique person. We know that we have some differences and similarities between us, but all these aspects make us a real couple.
As you know my boyfriend´s name is Hugo Kalagan Alonso, I like to call him Kalagan. He is very tall; his high is around 1.88 mts. He has blond and wavy hair and light brown eyes. He has a big smile; a characteristic of his smile is that he has too big his canine teeth. He does not have a lot of beard and mustache, for this reason he always shaves him. He is a little chubby; his weight is of 85 to 90 kg. He has long and strong arms, his hands are big with thin and long fingers. He also has long legs, foot toes are very large and his nails are too small. He was born with dark circles under the eyes and these dark circles are a big characteristic of him, sometimes he looks like a raccoon.
Some people tell me that he is not very handsome but it does not matter because he is a very good person. If you see his face you can believe that he is very apathetic, but when you start to speak with him you can see that he is not that kind of person. I met him almost 2 years ago and I can tell you that he is a very confident person; also he is very friendly, he likes to laugh and playing a joke, but he is not very good telling jokes. He is not very vain but he likes to take care of his appearance, also he is not very sentimental and he does not like to express his feelings. He is very proud and I think sometimes that his proud is not very good because sometimes he does not accept when he makes a mistake and also because he does not like to apologize. But I met him with all his virtues and faults and I really like the way that he is.
I think that we are together for our differences, and these differences make our relationship very interesting and amazing. Also we have a lot of similarities and it is good because we agree some aspects. I really like to be with him because he makes me feel happy, when I am with him is like pink color, I forget my problems and if I am sad he tries to make me smile and laugh with jokes or saying me beautiful things. He tries to be with me in bad moments and I try the same. I have to say that I lived with him the best moments of my life. Sometimes when we argue, he does not say anything; he just gives me hugs and kisses. All our problems make our relationship stronger because I love him and I know that he loves me in the same way.
In conclusion I think that he is the best person that I met, it does not matter if he is not brown skin as I wanted because the things that are really important are his feelings and all the characteristics that makes him unique. I believe that if you really love does not matter physical appearance and it happened me I love him a lot and I like the way that he is, it does not matter if he is proud or not because it is a big characteristic of him and if I try to change it he is going to lose his essence as a unique person. We know that we have some differences and similarities between us, but all these aspects make us a real couple.
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